Tuesday, August 13, 2013

Turning Away




There are people that start out strong in the Lord and then, for some reason or other, end up bitter and angry, forsaking the Lord.  This is not a debate about once saved always saved, it is just a fact.  I am not saying whether these people were saved or not saved, I am not the judge, only the Lord knows whether they were or not.  I know that just because you find a mouse in a cookie jar that doesn’t make him a cookie any more than if you see a person in church that doesn’t make them true believers.  All I know is if they claimed to be believers at one time, they must have thought they were.

I have witnessed two people who in the past claimed to be born-again but at that time they weren’t living the life they claimed.  One of them I knew was so bitter that, if I remember right, he burned Bibles and became very belligerent towards believers.  The other man made fun of the Lord and His Word and became very negative about the Christian faith altogether.  I am happy to say that both of them, as far as I know, have repented and are now trying to serve the Lord.

This tidbit is to make you aware of the possibility of allowing a bitter spirit to rise up within you.  It says this in Hebrews 12:14-15, “Strive for peace with all men, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fail to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” spring up and cause trouble, and by it the many become defiled.”  It is inevitable that anger and bitterness causing un-forgiveness can and may occur sometime in your walk with the Lord, and if not dealt with has a potential to knock you out of the race.  

True love is what is needed to keep any of us from these disastrous events taking place in our lives.  The key to not allowing this to take place in your life is this, which Jesus said in Matthew 22:35-40, “Then one of them, a lawyer, asked Him a question, testing Him, and saying, ‘Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?’ Jesus said to him, ‘you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment and the second is like it you shall love your neighbor as yourself, on these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.’”  If love controls your life and your intentions, bitterness and un-forgiveness may never get a hold on you.

Proverbs 10:12 says this, “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all sins.”

And 1 Peter 4:8 says this, “And above all things have fervent love for one another, for ‘love will cover a multitude of sins.’”

I think this has become a great issue in the church, it seems like many confess love but confessing it and demonstrating love are two different things.  Many times people will say they love the Lord more than anything or anyone in the world but their actions say something else; what they say, what they do and what they listen to tell a different story.  Could it be that many are in love with love and have no idea how to express it or what it really consists of?

For instance, when I met my wife I told her I loved her within two weeks but I had no idea of what love was, all I knew is what lust was.  It was a while before she told me she loved me but when she said it, she meant it.  Today is our 36th wedding anniversary and she has demonstrated her love for me all those years and what a joy it is to be married to her.  As far as I am concerned, God gave me the very best wife I could have ever wanted and all the praise and thanksgiving goes to Him.

Many people claimed to love me but when I didn’t agree with everything they did or said or if I did or said something they didn’t agree with, they were gone.  There are only a few people that I can count on that I know love me and they are my wife and kids plus the good Lord, and having them is enough.  So if your love is genuine, you will avoid the kind of bitterness and un-forgiveness that can end up turning you away from the Lord.  Something to think about and may the good Lord bless you and yours and may you have a super day!!        

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