Peer-Pressure

Peer-pressure can cause you to do all kinds of things that you wouldn’t normally do.  It is much easier to go with the flow than to go against it at times.

Peer-pressure also causes fear at times and can cause you to make bad decisions and wrong choices.

Peer-pressure can mess up your whole value system.

Peer-pressure can be very controlling because it is hard to be the only one disagreeing in a crowd of people.  Even believers can fall into peer-pressure and find themselves going against the Lord and what they know to be true.

Peer-pressure causes embarrassment, along with anxiety and nervous responses, because of not thinking clearly.

The answer is, do not let peer-pressure control you.  Jesus never gave into peer-pressure and was constantly going against the flow which didn’t make Him very popular with many people in the days he walked the earth.  In fact, since the day He walked the earth, His Word has been contrary to worldly thinking and many reject it and don’t want to hear it.

Here is an example of two people that could have fallen into peer-pressure but didn’t.  Read Numbers 13:25-33, “And they returned from spying out the land after forty days.

Now they departed and came back to Moses and Aaron and all the congregation of the children of Israel in the Wilderness of Paran, at Kadesh; they brought back word to them and to all the congregation, and showed them the fruit of the land. Then they told him, and said: ‘We went to the land where you sent us. It truly flows with milk and honey, and this is its fruit. Nevertheless the people who dwell in the land are strong; the cities are fortified and very large; moreover we saw the descendants of Anak there. The Amalekites dwell in the land of the South; the Hittites, the Jebusites, and the Amorites dwell in the mountains; and the Canaanites dwell by the sea and along the banks of the Jordan.’

Then Caleb quieted the people before Moses, and said, ‘Let us go up at once and take possession, for we are well able to overcome it.’

But the men who had gone up with him said, ‘We are not able to go up against the people, for they are stronger than we.’ And they gave the children of Israel a bad report of the land which they had spied out, saying, ‘The land through which we have gone as spies is a land that devours its inhabitants, and all the people whom we saw in it are men of great stature. There we saw the giants (the descendants of Anak came from the giants); and we were like grasshoppers in our own sight, and so we were in their sight.’”

And also 14:1-9, “So all the congregation lifted up their voices and cried, and the people wept that night. And all the children of Israel complained against Moses and Aaron, and the whole congregation said to them, ‘If only we had died in the land of Egypt! Or if only we had died in this wilderness! Why has the Lord brought us to this land to fall by the sword, that our wives and children should become victims? Would it not be better for us to return to Egypt?’ So they said to one another, ‘Let us select a leader and return to Egypt.’

Then Moses and Aaron fell on their faces before all the assembly of the congregation of the children of Israel.

But Joshua the son of Nun and Caleb the son of Jephunneh, who were among those who had spied out the land, tore their clothes; and they spoke to all the congregation of the children of Israel, saying: ‘The land we passed through to spy out is an exceedingly good land. If the Lord delights in us, then He will bring us into this land and give it to us, ‘a land which flows with milk and honey.’ Only do not rebel against the Lord, nor fear the people of the land, for they are our bread; their protection has departed from them, and the Lord is with us. Do not fear them.’”

Joshua and Caleb could have been intimidated, but they did not give into the peer-pressure and they were blessed because of the decision they made to stand firm and to tell the truth through eyes of faith.  They were able to enter the Promise Land.  

Someday, if you are tempted to conform, or yield to peer-pressure, I hope you will remember the attitude Jesus had, along with Joshua and Caleb and many more people that stood their ground and didn’t give into peer-pressure, so that you and I will do the right thing at the time.  Something to think about!  May you have a super day and be very blessed by the good Lord!!